Sometimes our advice to others is what we need to remind ourselves of:
Self: "everyone deserves happiness, and he probably isn't even really happy. you don't need someone to be happy, and if you think you do then you've got it all wrong. he's just filling some void within himself with something false to make himself think he's happy and numb his pain and insecurities. you need to be happy being all alone and hold yourself up before you can give that love to anyone else, and i think we both know he can't do that. he's always running from one idiot girl to another. the girls he's with don't even know him. just rise above it all. love yourself. learn who you are. learn what it's like to be completely alone but completely in love with every aspect of who you are and the life you are creating. be able to make yourself laugh when you're sitting all alone. then one day you can know that it's time to be in a relationship because you don't NEED to be in one, but because you WANT to. you're so fulfilled as a person that you want to share your laughter with someone else. being in a relationship isn't about relying on someone else to make you happy it's about sharing your own personal happiness with the other person. it's about making them feel good about who they are because YOU feel good about who you are as a person and that energy radiates to them. you're light, you're love."
Friend: "i'm nothing"
S: "you're everything. remember that"
F: "i'll try."
S: "i'll remind you."
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